Surprises Await You Men
Hey guys, finally here are some meaningful and practical facts to guide you in dealing with women to get what YOU want. No doubt the researchers' findings will surprise you! It isn't the news guys wanted to hear, but at least it makes sense logically and is something most guys can do. So hear what the researchers have to say you guys need to do in dealing with women. Your new results are going to feel so good!
Researchers' first big news is that what women really want is driven primarily by ancient DNA from their female ancestors who lived over the past millions of years. And it is true for women in all cultures and countries still today.
The Most Important Difference Between Women and Men
Women are DNA-wired to develop good RELATIONSHIPS with everyone. Women build relationships automatically and subconsciously for survival purposes. That comes from their millions of female ancestors who lived in a very hostile world where they needed protection by others. It was mostly women who they could count on for help when they needed help.
Women back in ancient times had to face more dangers than they could cope with by themselves so having good friendships with as many other women as possible meant a better chance for survival. So in women's DNA evolved a need and the skills for creating relationships for safety and survival. Men are very different: Men are independent and stronger than women, so friendly relationships are not important to men for their survival.
Men Want Status, Not Relationships
Let's take a look first at what drives men so we can better appreciate how and why women are so different from men. Men's ancient DNA wiring for survival is based on a need for being dominant in their group. Men's bodies prepare for domineering and competing for high status by building muscles and making testosterone. Testosterone is the hormone that makes men "lean and mean". (And some women have a lot more adjectives to describe men!)
Male dominance tactics to become "top dog" begin at puberty. Young men compete in numerous ways to establish their dominance rank in their group hierarchy. Taking risks and demonstrating bravery are common ways young men use to increase their dominance rank in their group. Often young men are injured or even killed attempting to out-do others in their group to raise their status.
YouTube now has uncountable numbers of videos of teenagers doing unthinkably stupid stunts attempting to raise their status in the eyes of peers. In far too many cases they end up with badly damaged property and bodies. Obviously in many cases there appears to be a complete absence of common sense. Blame it on testosterone and a need for dominance status among males! (You don't see young women doing such stupid stunts!)
A man's status is always on his mind consciously or unconsciously because his ancestors' survival frequently depended on being the strongest and most dominant. That need for dominance is still in men's genes as evidenced by men's competitiveness, combativeness, and status seeking. How men express their need for high status today depends on how civilized and socialized they are through upbringing and training. Men think status is important but women think a good relationship is more important. That is a big difference between men and women.
So always be aware that men are constantly striving for high status so they can reap the rewards of the "top dog". Women are always seeking trusting relationships to insure survival. These two different strong drives are in all men's and women's genes! No wonder the road to romance is so bumpy!
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Hey guys, you have no idea what we women really want!
All you guys think about is what you want -- and that isn't going to get you anywhere with us! If you want the good times with us you better try to understand how we women think, act, and live every minute differently than you guys.
We aren't going to change, so you better learn how to deal with us women just the way we were designed to live and love.
You need to understand that deep within us is always our DNA genetic programming from our millions of female ancestors. That is what drives us in selecting a mate and doing what comes naturally for us.
Our bodies were designed primarily to do a job and we need your help. Only smart guys need apply to help us!
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