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Men and Women Want Different Things From Each Other
E ven though women and men may act and dress in modern acceptable ways, they are all still strongly influenced by their ancient ancestors' desires. Based on the way our ancestors succeeded in mating over eons, here is what still remains in many women's and men's DNA today:
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Women's DNA programming makes them look for a strong mate who will stick around to protect her and help raise the children.
 Most women want a monogamous relationship and long term commitment before turning on the passion hormones. This scheme is what worked best for women to make babies and survive during the past several million years. This need is even in women not consciously thinking about marrying and raising children!
Nature has even built into women a natural means of helping her select the man who sticks around. Women are only fertile approximately 24 hours a month. The guy who is there knocking on her door regularly has the best chance of making her pregnant. Incidentally, men's sperm are pretty smart: they will lay and wait for her egg for up to 72 hours!
- Men's ancient DNA strategy for producing the most offspring was to have frequent sex with as many women as possible.
 Men's DNA programing is for frequent sex with any willing healthy female, and with no commitments. That is what worked best for millions of men's male ancestors to pass on their DNA genes.
Fact 3: What Women Want in a Man
- Most women pay close attention to how men accumulate power and resources, and how generous they are. Woman want a mate who dedicates himself and his resources totally to insuring survival and a good life for her and her children. Women want emotional intimacy but men mostly seek physical intimacy.
- Most men's ancient DNA programing is for frequent sex with numerous women -- and without any commitments. However today, socialization through example, education, and laws have influenced most men to create a supportive relationship with only one woman with an implied promise that it is for the long term. However, we can see daily evidence that socialization and other attempts to insure long term monomagamous commitment from men often fails.
Recommended Books.
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-- What Women Want Next by Susan Maushart.
-- What Does a Woman Want? by Serge Andre.
-- What Women Want in Bed by Dr. Ava Cadell.
-- Three Great Novels- What A Woman Wants: "A Sense Of Belonging", "Dancing In The Dark", "Some Kind Of Hero" by Donna Hay.
-- What Women Want to Know About Men: What Men Need to Know About Themselves by Nick Durso.
-- What Women Want from Work by Ruth Woodfield.
-- What Women Want: What Every Man Needs to Know About Sex, Romance, Passion, and Pleasure by Laurence Roy Stains.
-- What Women Want: The Life You Crave and How God Satisfies by Lisa T. Bergren
-- What a Woman Wants by Brenda Jackson.
-- What Women Want--What Men Want: Why the Sexes Still See Love and Commitment So Differently by John Marshall Townsend.
-- What Does a Woman Want?: Reading and Sexual Difference by Shoshana Felman.
-- The Bridesmaid's Reward (What Women Want !) by Liz Fielding.
-- What Do Women Want? by Luise Eichenbaum.
-- The Ultimate Guide on Dating and Relationships.
-- Dating For Women Over 40.
-- How to Meet Women and Get Dates.
-- Dating Foreign Women.
-- What Do Women Want from Men?
-- What Women Want: What Men Need to Know.
-- Seduce Me! What Women Really Want.
-- Female Body Language Secrets.
-- Male Body Language That Attracts Women.
-- Female Body Language That Attracts Men.
-- What Do Women Want from Men?
-- What Women Want Men to Know.
-- With This Baby (What Women Want!)
-- What Do Women REALLY Want? Chocolate!
-- The truth about what women want in men.
-- What Women Want Men to Know: The Ultimate Book about Love, Sex, and Relationships for You--and the Man You Love.
-- What Women Want.
-- The Secret of Relationships: Your Complete Personology Guide to Any Relationship with Anyone.
-- The Forbidden Marriage: What Women Want!
-- What Women Want-What Men Want.
-- Love Signals: A Practical Field Guide to the Body Language of Courtship.
-- What Women Want Next.
-- WHAT WOMEN WANT-WHAT MEN WANT: WHY THE SEXES SEE LOVE AND COMMITMENT SO DIFFERENTLY.
-- What Women Want Most.
-- What Women Want: the Silver Lining of Relationships.
-- Why Women Want What They Can't Have: Why So Many Relationships Fail.
-- What Women Really Want, What Women Really Need.
-- The Girls' Guide to Guys: Straight Talk for Teens on Flirting, Dating, Breaking Up, Making Up & Finding True Love.
-- What Most Women Want / What Few Women Find.
-- What Do Women Want?
-- Men Are From Cyberspace: The Single Woman's Guide To Flirting, Dating, & Finding Love.
-- Satisfaction Guaranteed: What Women Really Want in Bed.
-- What Women Really Want: And How They Can Get It.
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