Men and Women Want Different Things From Each Other
Even though women and men may act and dress in modern acceptable ways, they are all still strongly influenced by their ancient ancestors' desires. Based on the way our ancestors succeeded in mating over eons, here is what still remains in many women's and men's DNA today:
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Women's DNA programming makes them look for a strong mate who will stick around to protect her and help raise the children.
Most women want a monogamous relationship and long term commitment before turning on the passion hormones. This scheme is what worked best for women to make babies and survive during the past several million years. This need is even in women not consciously thinking about marrying and raising children!
Nature has even built into women a natural means of helping her select the man who sticks around. Women are only fertile approximately 24 hours a month. The guy who is there knocking on her door regularly has the best chance of making her pregnant. Incidentally, men's sperm are pretty smart: they will lay and wait for her egg for up to 72 hours!
- Men's ancient DNA strategy for producing the most offspring was to have frequent sex with as many women as possible.
Men's DNA programing is for frequent sex with any willing healthy female, and with no commitments. That is what worked best for millions of men's male ancestors to pass on their DNA genes.
Fact 3: What Women Want in a Man
- Most women pay close attention to how men accumulate power and resources, and how generous they are. Woman want a mate who dedicates himself and his resources totally to insuring survival and a good life for her and her children.
Women want EMOTIONAL intimacy.
Men want PHYSICAL intimacy.
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Most men's ancient DNA programing is for frequent sex with numerous women -- and without any commitments. However today, socialization through example, education, and laws have influenced most men to create a supportive relationship with only one woman with an implied promise that it is for the long term.
However, we can see daily evidence that socialization and other attempts to insure long term monomagamous commitment from men often fails.