Men and women want different things from each other.
Based on the way our ancestors succeeded in mating over eons, this is what remains in women's and men's DNA today:
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Women's DNA programming makes them look for a strong mate who will stick around to protect her and help raise the children. Women want a sound relationship and long term commitment before turning on the passion hormones. This scheme is what worked best for women to make babies for a million years. This need even is in women not consciously thinking about marrying and raising children. The most effective way for a guy to get to a woman's heart (and her bed) is by establishing a long term protective and supportive relationship.
Nature has even built into women a natural means of helping her select the man who sticks around. Women are only fertile approximately 24 hours a month. The guy who is there knocking on her door regularly has the best chance of making her pregnant. Incidentally, men's sperm are pretty smart: they will lay and wait for her egg for up to 72 hours!
- Men's DNA strategy for producing the most offspring is to have frequent sex with as many women as possible.
Men's DNA programming is for frequent sex with any willing healthy female, and with no commitments or problems. That is what worked best for millions of men's male ancestors. (Lots of that attitude still showing up in today's men.)
Healthy young men make hundreds of millions of sperm a day! Every one of those little "wigglies" has a strong drive to get to any female egg it can find. So men are not very particular about whose bones they jump on! That is what worked for men's ancestors and the drive is still there in men's DNA today. (Guys, don't worry about exploding -- although it feels that you will! Your body absorbs all the excess old "wigglies" that you can't give away.)
Summary of Fact 3:
Women want a strong and healthy man who will stick around in a long term relationship for protection and to help raise the children.
Men's DNA programing is for frequent sex with numerous women -- and without any commitments.
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