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Single Man Dating: The Facts for Dating Success
Introduction
Fact 1.
About Men, Women, and Relationships
Fact 2.
How the Mating Game Really Works
Fact 3.
What Women Want in a Man
Fact 4.
How to Make Her Want YOU!
Fact 5.
Women Want Some of This in Men
Fact 6.
How to Find a Woman
Fact 7.
Delightful Facts About Women's Bodies!
Fact 8.
Mate Selection Chemistry Facts
Fact 9.
"Love" Chemistry Facts
Fact 10.
Dating Modern Women
Fact 11.
What Modern Women Want From Modern Men
Fact 12.
What Latest Research Reveals About Relationships (You Are Here)

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Relationships Begin With an Attraction Between Two People

Men and women both say physical appearance is important, but for different reasons!

Men are unconsciously attracted to women who exhibit these characteristics. These needs are in men's DNA and usually are unconscious drives from teenage years until death.

  • Healthy skin, hair, teeth, and eyes. These are appealing because they imply the woman can produce healthy children.

  • A waist and hip ratio with the waist approximately 70% narrower than the hips. Men in nearly all cultures admire this because it indicates high fertility.

  • Symmetrical face and body. This is considered "good looking" and indicates good health and low chromosome damage.

  • Youthful. This implies low chromosome damage for healthiest children. The older the woman, the more chance for birth defects.

  • Flashy and classy. A "trophy" woman demonstrates to all the other guys that the man is a "great hunter" -- or so his unconscious ego hopes.
Women are unconsciously attracted to men who exhibit these characteristics:

  • Strong, healthy, and agile. In women's DNA is a need for protection and help during pregnancy and child rearing for many years.

  • Acquires and controls abundant resources. Again, women's primary unconscious drive is to raise children and they historically relied on men to help make a home for them and the children.

  • Tall. Six feet (1.83 m) is most frequent height desired, as indicated on surveys. A tall mate would provide good protection.

    Interestingly, women's desire for a "good looking" man is quite low on the list of desired traits on surveys. Other characteristics for insuring a long term protective relationship were the highest desired traits on surveys in all cultures sampled.

After the physical attraction draws them closer, they look for similarities in each other.

If there are enough similarities, the two people may agree to spend time together in an ongoing relationship. There are a huge number of possible areas where the two may have common interests. Here are some of the most frequently listed similar areas desired in partners.

After they have lived together for a time, the cost/reward ratio must be fair and equal for a continued happy relationship.

The correlation between happy marriages and good health is high. Likewise, the correlation between unhappy marriages and poor health is also high.

A happy and loving relationship is priceless for insuring longevity and good health. It is well worth working hard to create and continue the best relationship possible.

Summary of Fact 12:
Men and women are attracted to different characteristics in a mate.
It takes much understanding and work to make a relationship last. In spite of these obstacles and differences, "mating is the best game around."

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